The eternal love companion is jealousy. Love and jealousy are so opposite and at the same time inseparable … Scientists have been trying to figure out what this is for a long time. And explain its chemical and biological processes of the body.
It is assumed when they say the word “jealousy”, then everything becomes clear to everyone. And what is clear, then? And it is clear that a person who is jealous is a mentally unbalanced type with manic depressive inclinations.
Jealousy is murderous and aggressive. Most often occurs without any reason. She kills not only the one who is jealous but who is jealous and who is jealous of. Jealousy destroys families. But the jealous man believes that he is saving his family. It happens that the family is restored, but it is very rare and here the feeling of love most likely works.
Why is a person jealous? One theologian many centuries ago said: “He who is not jealous, does not love,” so he set the dependence of jealousy on love. But there is another aphorism: “Not then a person is jealous when he loves and when he wants to be loved,” which means that jealousy is the desire to be loved.
So what is jealousy and what is it made of? I will give quotes of famous people who (quotes) I really liked.
Francois Larochefuca – “In jealousy, only one share of love and ninety-nine shares of vanity.”
Honore de Balzac – “Jealousy in men consists of selfishness, brought to hell, out of pride, taken unawares and irritated vanity”
Stanislav Vapnyak – “Suspecting women of infidelity makes us not their betrayal, but our own.” But after all, it turns out that quite often the family is jealous of the spouse who himself is most prone to violation of marital fidelity. Although I know a family in which both spouses are prone to adultery. And they never had quarrels on the basis of jealousy))))).
They just are not jealous of each other. And my conclusion suggests itself: that extremely self-confident people are not very jealous, and those who have more complexes and less self-esteem are more jealous.
The line between love and jealousy is so thin that it is almost impossible to understand where love ends and jealousy comes. Jealousy parasitizes on love, shamelessly using its energy. Jealousy takes a lot of strength, emotions and energy, respectively. Can this energy be better spent on love? Not for destruction, but for creation.
